"Connect to server" probably covers just what you guys want. When connected through, say SSH, it show up as a folder in nautilus and on your desktop. Better integration is a must though.
It doesn't let the server handle pointing to my home folder (on the server). Further, it doesn't let me change the folder it loads to on the server. While this is interesting as otherwise I would have never discovered the severity in the decline of CS students in my college while looking for my home folder, it's just a pain.
It doesn't let me change the "Name to use for connection."
In fact, it's not easy to change any mounted network drive.